His Time
The Men's Relationship Growth Group
Tired of feeling like the bad guy in your own relationship?
Let’s be real—being a man in a relationship today isn’t easy. You’re expected to lead, provide, protect, stay calm, be emotionally available, keep the peace, fix problems, and still somehow not screw it all up. Meanwhile, you’re often left feeling misunderstood, disrespected, or like nothing you do is ever enough.
Maybe you're trying to avoid another argument that goes in circles. Maybe your wife or girlfriend keeps saying “I don't feel heard” and you're thinking "What does that even mean?" Or maybe you’ve shut down altogether—just to keep the peace.
Whatever brought you here, one thing’s clear: Something has to change. And here’s the truth most men never hear:
You can’t fix your relationship until you fix how you show up in it. That’s where His Time comes in.
What Is His Time?
His Time is an in-person men’s coaching group designed to help you grow as a man, partner, and leader. It’s not therapy—it’s real talk, real growth, and real brotherhood. Led by award-winning marriage counselor and coach Chris A. Matthews, this group is built for men who are serious about leveling up emotionally and relationally. Whether you're married, dating with intention, or just trying to stop the slow drift that's killing your connection—this is your space to reset, refocus, and rise.
In This Group, You’ll Learn How To...
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Communicate so you're heard—not just blamed or misunderstood
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Show up as a better husband, boyfriend, or father without losing yourself
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Understand and express emotions in a way that builds respect, not weakness
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Navigate conflict without shutting down or blowing up
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Lead your relationship with confidence, calm, and clarity
When and Where
📍 9307 Monroe Road, Suite P, Charlotte, NC 28270
🕡 Mondays | 6:30 PM – 8:00 PM ET
💵 $50 per session (includes workbook and guided support)
This is an open-ended group, but we recommend attending at least 8 sessions to experience the full transformation.
Chris A. Matthews is not just a marriage counselor—he's a husband, father, coach, and straight-talking expert who's helped thousands of men take back control of their relationships. As a licensed marriage and family therapist, author, and founder of multiple mental health organizations, Chris brings decades of experience to the table—plus a deep understanding of what men really need to succeed in love and life.
Chris doesn’t preach. He connects.
He doesn’t sugarcoat. He guides.
He knows what it’s like to carry the weight.
He can teach you how to put it down without walking away.
Meet Your Facilitator
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How many rooms are available?This is an exclusive and intimate retreat, limited to just 15 couples. We've intentionally kept the group small to ensure every couple receives personalized attention and a high-quality experience. Once those 15 rooms are booked, registration will close—so reserve your spot early!
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Is this retreat only for married couples or couples in crisis?Not at all. This retreat is open to all committed couples—whether you're married, engaged, cohabiting, or dating with the intent to marry. You do not have to be legally married to attend. It’s designed for couples who want to grow, reconnect, and celebrate their relationship. While couples experiencing deeper issues may benefit, we recommend completing a few counseling sessions in advance. This retreat is not recommended for abusive relationships or active addiction recovery without prior treatment.
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Is the price per couple or per person?The price is per couple.
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Will we have to share personal details with the group?Only if you want to. The retreat is focused on private, couple-centered work. During breakout sessions, you’ll engage directly with your partner—not in front of others. There are optional Q&A opportunities and social mixers, but no one is ever pressured to share. Our environment is respectful, warm, and judgment-free—designed for connection, not discomfort.
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Will we have time to ourselves?Definitely. We’ve built in plenty of free time for rest, romance, and reconnection. You’ll have the space to enjoy spa treatments, private dinners, beach walks, or naps without a packed schedule. Each day is balanced between transformation and leisure.
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Can we bring our children?No. This is a couples-only retreat. Children are not allowed in the reserved room block or during any part of the retreat. We believe in giving couples dedicated time away to focus on each other, uninterrupted and fully present.
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What’s included in the retreat package?Everything—except your airfare. Here’s what you’ll receive: ✅ 3 or 4 nights in a luxury suite at Zoëtry Agua Punta Cana ✅ All meals, snacks, and unlimited top-shelf drinks ✅ 24-hour room service ✅ Airport transfers to and from Punta Cana International Airport ✅ Daily maid service & exclusive welcome gifts ✅ 2–3 private breakout sessions with Chris & Shauntay Matthews ✅ Private Boat Excursion with music, drinks, and fun ✅ Couples social mixers and curated experiences ✅ Travel insurance ✅ Unlimited Wi-Fi and international calling ✅ BONUS: 1 private virtual coaching or counseling sessions (Available to couples who pay in full or register by June 30th 2025)
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Is airfare included?Airfare is not included, but we’ve partnered with a trusted travel agent to make booking simple: 📞 Cynthia Jordan OSJourneys | NGI Experience, LLC Tel: 704-751-9057 Email: Hello@osjourneys.com IG: @osjourneys Web: osjourneys.com Cynthia can help you secure the best flights and even assist with extending your trip.
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Have more questions?We’re here to help! Feel free to contact your retreat host: 📞 Chris A. Matthews ✉️ info@chrisamatthews.com 📱 704-712-1696